All of this!
The "owed sex" domain is steeped so deep in organized religion and the patriarchy. It doesn't help that America has people such as Marjorie Taylor Greene who tell women it is their duty as a wife.
No one has a "right" to sex with anyone of their choosing!
I wonder if any of these incels ever look inward and recognize that their tact isn't working so perhaps they should try a different tact! As we know, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result.
Thanks for writing about these topics Yael!