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How Do You React When Kindness Is Met With Hostility and Aggression?
Don’t allow the emotions of others to detract from your kindness
I thought he was going to hit me! And for what? Rescueing his dogs!
Doing the right thing isn’t always met with gratitude. And we must be wary of expecting praise as a motivator for kindness.
Acting kindly often has more to do with our own values than anything else. It seems we live in a world where too many people walk around with blinkers on, reluctant to get involved in anything that doesn’t directly affect them. That’s not me. I will insert myself into a situation if I can be of any help.
It is a rare occasion that kindness upsets others. But when this happens, it says more about the other person than it does about us.
I want to share a story about the rescue of two runaway beagles and the owner's confusing response.
I held her hand, and we skipped together down the street. Half an hour with my seven-year-old niece at the playpark was enough chaos for my threshold. We were almost home, just a few more road crossings.
Tweedledee and Tweedledum darted across the road before us, narrowly missing becoming beagle pancakes. I looked around for an owner; the streets were…
