I am so sorry to hear you have had unkind comments said to you about your family. That is completely unnecessary and really not fair!

I am absolutley not an antinatalist (against reproduction full stop). I am so pro people who desperately want to be parents, becoming parents and I love seeing them parent.

I am very against pronatalism and the whole manipulation to have a certain number of children. I hear a lot of friends with 1 child receive regular comments.

No matter what we do we will be judged for it.

Thanks for confimring your interpretation of my piece and I am so so glad it reads in the manner it is intended. :-)