I hear you. I do alot of work in the childfree community. There is an incredible lady called Isabel who leads a community called the Uprising Spark, this is specifically for BIPOC who want to be childfree. It helps them navigate the difficulties of achieving their own life goals in the confines of their cultures.
I recognise my privilege in terms of even being able to choose for myself. But the stigma I experience is still so very real. My society still sees women without children as "less than". My society is still far too led by pronatalism.
Thanks for reading and adding in your experiences and take. Always good to hear :-)