I totally hear this.
That said, I genuinely shave my legs for me. I was single for 4 years and shaved my legs almost daily (it took 2 seconds in the shower whilst the conditioner soaked in), i prefer the feel. No interestingly enough, my partner is not too fussed if they are prickly or freshly shaved. But I still do it for myself.
I think these days the more modern man also trims his pubic hair. I certainly encourage this.
I also wear perfume for myself.
I don't wear much make up or do much with my hair and I am prepared to grow old and grey with grace. I won't be dying my hair or panicking about wrinkles. :-)