I’m sorry you received this unsolicited advice and a opinion. I understand. I’ve untangled from an alcoholic twin. I don’t even have kids that I’m protecting. And I stand by my decision. I will not be a punch bag. Like your situation it’s complex. It wasn’t an easy decision and there’s waaaaaaay more to it than I could ever explain.

You keep doing what is best for you. Please block the person who came up with those comments. You inspire me with the way you talk about this sort of thing. I can see the hurt but also how much you have worked at moving on and not living in guilt. Thank you for your openness! 😀