My brain is down a rabbit hole, help me decide if I can call myself strong or not — When was the last time you heard a man described as “strong”? And no, the bodybuilding context does not count. The more I read and write on feminism, the deeper my brain dives. I have recently found myself in a new stage of awareness. …

It has taken me years to stop putting credence in his words — Was I flirting with him? I don’t think so, but I was enjoying the attention. Until he becomes over-familiar that is, and comes out with that! We were just 2 colleagues, chilling out and chatting. “You know Ali, you are almost the full package. You are a good laugh, really…

Let their error be a lesson in global misogyny — If the World Health Organisation (WHO) has its way, women will be legally prevented from drinking alcohol. They will be at home protecting their uterus and drinking herbal tea. Whilst men are out in pubs, filling their gullets with alcohol. The WHO has recently published its ‘Global Alcohol Action Plan’…

Are large, traditional weddings worth the hype? — Is the wedding industry careering out of control? How much do we actually want to buy into the traditions, expectations, and rising costs of a wedding these days? According to an article by Helen Pye, the average cost of a U.K wedding is over thirty-one thousand pounds (over forty-two thousand…

Reframing gender roles for representation and inclusion — Have you ever listened to a podcast and felt uncomfortable with the host's choice of words? This happened to me, and it weighed heavily on my mind until I did something about it. Sometimes, even the most respected, informed, and enlightened of our heroes get it wrong. Don’t we all…

The reckless and adulterous ways of the British prime minister — If Boris Was a Female Imagine Nicola Sturgeon, the First Minister of Scotland conducted her personal life in a similar manner to Boris Johnson. The country would label her a slag and a slut. Her personal affairs would serve as shackles around her ankles. The media would have a field day. Yet Boris Johnson seems…

Tell us what ignites your heart and aligns with your soul — “Hi everyone, so my name is Jane. I’m married to Simon and we have 2 beautiful daughters.” Have you experienced that group environment when the organizer initiates introductions? Specifically, they ask you to tell your comrades a little bit about yourself? I wonder how Jane would have answered this question…

Let’s call out sexual harassment at work — “Your ass looks great in those jeans.” Standing at the sink, washing my coffee mug, I was aware of his presence behind me. I knew no one else was around. I didn’t expect his comment. I am embarrassed to admit his words flattered me — for a few milliseconds. …