Love this so much Ronke! Completely on point and beautifully written. I must watch that film. You’ve hit the nail on the head. I dated a guy who turned up to our first date 3 stone heavier than his profile pic. I’m pretty sure if I were the one who turned up 3 stone heavier there wouldn’t have been a second date! And on reflection, there never should have been a second date, let alone a 6 month relationship!