Oh Debra. I can't even imagine what you went through and what you go through with the fear of it returning. Thank you for sharing some tips of what helped you. I'm on the periphery of someone very close to me being stage 3 lung cancer. I've read a few books and trying my best to support. If you have any tips, or have written a story about how we can best support a loved one with cancer, I'm all ears and eyes.