Sandra
You have revealed more of your experiences than I have read from you before. You are phenomenal and it makes total sense to have the go to attitude of "all men are bad". But kudos to you for trying to shift this.
I see some rather questionable comments in reply to this. Please ignore and block. Haters are going to hate.
Keep being you and paving the path for so many of us on our own healing journey. You inspire. You shine the way. Thank you!