Sounds familiar.

Dr Nicole Lepera warns of fireworks and drama in a relationship. All too often we feel if we don’t have those we aren’t compatible. But actually those are signs of our nervous system being triggered. And if we are used to unhealthy dynamics in our family of origin - narcissistic parents type of thing, we seek that familiarity out in partners. Sounds like you’ve broken free. I have too. No drama in my relationship.


You made me wonder, instead of asking “how did you meet” let’s ask “how are you still together” isn’t that more interesting and valuable. Thanks for sharing your story 😀