Thank you for sharing your experience. I genuinely believe we set men up like this. In the article I linked to I outline how we raise boys to be workers and go out and have fun and girls to believe their place is at home and raising babies. This still happens today. So men aren't taught this domestic responsibility and accountability. It is ingrained in them. We set them up to fail!

https://medium.com/@ali-hall/how-encouraging-little-boys-to-play-with-dolls-will-result-in-greater-gender-equality-5a87875768df