This is one of the bravest things I've read in a long time. Vulnerability is courageous.

Reading this breaks my heart. I found myself holding my breath. It also makes me so damn angry! As you are right in all that you say. II'm so sorry that for all this time you've been living thinking you did something wrong and you were at fault.

I admire you for writing to the ex to clear your name. This shows such strength, eloquence and fortitude.

Be kind to yourself, you are an incredible lady! :-)