Thought provoking Yael. I understand this conundrum. For me feminism is simple equality. About females living in equal with males. The slef acclaimed feminist who wrote THAT article, given she was only attacking other women and holding them accountable for the demise of society, I don't believe that makes her a feminist, even though she calls herself one.
But I also totally get that these are just my opinions and I'm sure the more I think about it, the more I will tie myself up in knots and change my mind and find other reasons to contradict myself.
Thank you for referring to my come back to THAT piece. I wholly agree, if any other grou pof society were being targeted, it would not have gone to print!